Day 99: The Audit
April 15th is a
day most grown ups dread and like other procrastinating adults we were derailed
from gaming by the taxman. The only
gaming that took place yesterday was a few moves of mobile Carcossone. But the government is not the only reason we
were distracted we have also spent much of our downtime watching an episode of
the new Netflix show DareDevil.
There are 24 hours left until
“D-day.” I euphemistically referred to
tomorrow, or the end of 100 days, as when I would make the choice between
Diablo and divorce. And it is probably a
good sign that over the last few weeks I have stopped labeling my blog posts
with the word divorce but as every good researcher knows, current trends do not
determine final outcomes. Today the plan
is to get the hubs the moment he gets off work and get as much gaming in as
possible.
I have been working on an
audit about how this experiment has changed me emotionally, my relationship
with the hubs, and if it provided any insight into what to do with our broken
marriage. The thing that surprised me the
most is that I wrote as much about my feelings as I did what games we played.
I have decided
to map my blog. To create themes and sub-themes of the
topics and emotions that have filled the last 100 days. I placed asterisks next to my favorite post in each category.
Guess what I am thinking about (hint: not taxes). |
The Experiment
Quitting my Marriage and Picking Up a Controller- Day 1
Why Play Games Instead of Getting a Divorce?-Day 4
Can Video Games Save a Marriage?- Day 10
12 Years of Holding Hands and Holding Controllers-Day 11
The Husband's Side of the Story- Day 18
Why I don't just play games for my husband.-Day 23
Treacherous River in Kern: Love and aBroken Marriage- Day 39
My Centennial(100th) Blog Post dedicated to Wil Wheaton- Day 43
**The Laundry Goblins- Day 51
Warmachine Widow- Day 54
Married People Play Video Games in a Scandalous Way- Day 65
The Hubs Guest Blog 2.0- Day 67
Far and Away from my PS4- Day 77
Video Games and Indoctrinating our Youth-Day86
Why Play Games Instead of Getting a Divorce?-Day 4
The Hardest Thing I Have Ever Done in MyLife- Day 16
**Why I don't just play games for my husband.-Day 23
Gear is Better than Roses- Day 37
Living in the Shadow of a Kick A$$ Wife- Day41
My Centennial(100th) Blog Post dedicated to Wil Wheaton- Day 43
Tales of a Wannabe Slayer-Day 47
Tales of a Wannabe Slayer Part 2- Day 48
Warmachine Widow- Day 54
Helldivers: Survive the hard stuff and don't shoot your wife-Day 63
Spit, Teach, Love: Today's Rant about Hope instead of Gaming- Day64
Gamer Family and Geek Parenting
I hope you dance- Day 8
Leaving My Family- Day 29
Rapists, Video Games, and Valentines Day- Day 35
Love and Legos- Day 41
My Centennial(100th) Blog Post dedicated to Wil Wheaton- Day 43
**The Hubs Guest Blog 2.0- Day 67
Video Games and Indoctrinating our Youth-Day 86
Romance
I hope you dance- Day 8
12 Years of Holding Hands and Holding Controllers-Day 11
Leaving My Family- Day 29
Rapists, Video Games, and Valentines Day- Day35
Gear is Better than Roses- Day 37
**A Treacherous River in Kern: Love and aBroken Marriage- Day 39
Kissing brown hair |
Big Eyes, Small Mouth- Day 52
Married People Play Video Games in a Scandalous Way- Day 65
Far and Away from my PS4- Day 77
Video Games and Indoctrinating our Youth-Day86
Beauty and Self Esteem
Things that are Hard 2.0 –Day 17
Living in the Shadow of a Kick A$$ Wife- Day41
Tales of a Wannabe Slayer-Day 47
Tales of a Wannabe Slayer Part 2- Day 48
Glitter vs Jem Part 1- Day 52
Glitter vs Jem Part 2- Day 53
Helldivers: Survive the hard stuff and don't shoot your wife-Day 63
Glitter vs JemPart 3- Day 68
The Hubs
DM with a Hairbow
Married People Play Video Games in a Scandalous Way- Day 65
Video Games and Indoctrinating our Youth-Day 86
Video Games and Indoctrinating our Youth-Day 86
The Hubs Guest Blog 2.0- Day 67
Warmachine
Things that are Hard 2.0 –Day 17
Rapists, Video Games, and Valentines Day- Day35
**Warmachine Widow- Day 54
Wil Wheaton
**The Return of Hope aka Wil Wheaton –Day 27
Upgrade your phone, not your wife- Day 30
My Centennial(100th) Blog Post dedicated to Wil Wheaton- Day 43
Helldivers: Survive the hard stuff and don't shoot your wife-Day 63
Buffy
Living in the Shadow of a Kick A$$ Wife- Day41
**Tales of a Wannabe Slayer-Day 47
Tales of a Wannabe Slayer Part 2- Day 48
Community of
Play (#gatheryourparty)
Love and Legos- Day 41
**Big Eyes, Small Mouth- Day 52
Far and Away from my PS4- Day 77
Travelling
Gone Girl the Game- Day 13
Things that are Hard 2.0 –Day 17
Upgrade your phone, not your wife- Day 30
**Far and Away from my PS4- Day 77
Shopping and
Money
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