Day 176: Gaming without Tantrums
Within many aspects of my life I am fairly accomplished person but I really do not like to fail. I will be the first to admit that I am feisty and I am not always proud of the way I react when I am not automatically successful at a task. Yoga has helped to calm my ego but when I am with the hubs there is less censorship and accountability because he is my person. Simply put, if I am going to be a brat when I suck at a game it is usually while I am playing with the hubs. I know it is terrible to admit in writing that with my partner I am my worst self but this is usually true. The implication of my limited range when it comes to game controls has been a major factor in our play and communication as a couple.
BUTTON MASHER EXPOSED
|Twilight Magicka session in Hotel|
For decades I have been able to get through gaming habits with hotkeys and button mashing. The hubs recently (yesterday) admitted that he has strategically chosen/encouraged co-op games based on the complexity of the controls because he knew I just wasn’t good enough for more advanced games.
After six months of co-op gaming we have been introducing new challenges to see if I can overcome my lifelong habit of mashing. I shamefully admit that using both analog sticks is still unnatural to me but I am getting there. The first game that has really started to push the boundaries of my skill has been Magicka.
KILLING MY HUSBAND
As I mentioned in a previous post we starting our 100 days with Diablo and moving on to games like Helldivers is tuff because all of a sudden there is friendly fire. The idea that not just your character can die but you can kill your party requires much more collaboration and focus sans button mashing. Magicka has both friendly fire, new spells every level (some that suck), and forces me to use both analog sticks simultaneously whether I like it or not. I cannot be successful in this game if I just mash buttons but the satisfaction of killing monsters together has increased ten-fold because things are just hard enough.
Tip of the Day: When it comes to married gaming its okay to start out easy but always try to be better (as long as you are both having fun). Also, if your partner is not at your same level of gaming don’t berate them. Instead take a page from the hubs book and ease them into gaming with quality titles that are within their current range. Most of all—it takes time but things do get better.