Showing posts with label Serenity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Serenity. Show all posts

Saturday, February 28, 2015

Big Eyes, Small Mouth

Day 52: Geeks Out of the Closet

A few weeks ago at my sons birthday party it became obvious that either many 30 somethings in Bakersfield are closet geeks or our kids have carefully chosen awesome social circles. One of the dads has WarHammer sleeves tatted up each forearm, and several others complimented my Buffy décor and choice to name my first born Inara.  

After today I can say with confidence that my daughter is making great friend selections because we just returned from a 6-hour play date and housewarming party.  We were asked to bring a few board games and knew the parents had geek tendencies but were not fully prepared for the evening that unfolded.  Though we went through two turn based games, board games were eclipsed by awesome fantasy scenario designed by our hosts.
Shadow Hunters  post RPG 

Synchronized Play with Strangers

Tonight we embarked on the start of an RPG BESM campaign with five strangers.  So for those who read my blog and do not understand alphabet soup:

DM= Dungeon Master (the narrator or architect during the game)
RPG =role playing game
BESM =Big Eyes, Small Mouth (aka the book that sets the rules for our story)

To simplify, we were basically playing a story telling game like dungeon and dragons.  Meanwhile, in real life our collective kids battled with moded cosplay nerf guns.  While we battled the reprehensible underworld in a Bioshock-like world, our children laughed and played animatedly at their own imaginary games of pretend.

Epic Love and Lamination  

The husband and wife duo that hosted were equally matched in their commitment a role-playing night.  The husband and DM had selected combat sequence music, character voices, and even laminated skill cards for each character. The wife helped each player with assigning skills and introducing players both in and out of game.  This game night was so successful because two people who love gaming, and love each other, came together to share a fantasy world with friends.


Our hosts this evening made me aspire to new heights as a married gamer.  Though my complete lack of domestic skills will not have me crafting laminated skills cards anytime soon, it has raised the bar.  Shout out to Jen and Tom, a gaming couple who remind me why I married a fellow gamer and embarked on these 100 days. 


Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Tales of a Wannabe Slayer Part 2

Day 48:  You can’t take the sky from me

In the comment section of my blog someone asked me to reflect on my personal faults that have brought me to this place in my life and marriage.  A few aspects of this answer include that I am brutally honest (that some people would also describe as being mean), and I know how smart I am, and I am stubborn.  It took me a long time to achieve these qualities and requires a lot of work to maintain my honesty, intelligence, and stubbornness.  Proceed in reading with caution and note that even if my personality has gotten me to where I am today, I have no plan to change anytime soon. 

Ambien versus BtVS

We all have self-care rituals that help us unwind at the end of a long day.  Some women can’t wait to soak in the tub, have some wine, snuggle, or review their DVR.  Although none of the previously mentioned options sounds off putting to me the most calming activity for me at the end of each day is to watch Buffy the Vampire Slayer. 

After my last blog post I realized my consumption of Buffy is both sacred and habitual.  I find it difficult to sleep without the teenage angst and poof of vampires exploding into dust in the background.  Recently, I have tried to watch Alias, Lost Girl, or Xena (all equally acceptably kick-ass girl power shows) but they do not soothe me.  Only Buffy with a side of Mal can ever get it done for me.

Stubbornness

I am open to new experiences but once I find something I like it is hard for me to change.  Once I found Iyengar Yoga all other yoga just lost its shiny-ness for me and I became a devout follower.  Together with the twin, I have ordered the same sundae from our local creamery for over 20 years.  Mac not PC.  No time soon will I be aspiring to obtain a girl card from Sephora.  This list could go on for a while, but it will take anyone about 10 minutes of reviewing my blog to realize I am set in my ways. 

Tales of a Wannabe Slayer

Into every generation a CCB is born: one girl in all the world a chosen one. 


To borrow some words from recent online trolls, I am a Buffy-obsessed “dirty harlot” and “feminist tool.”  And it does not really matter if you like the woman described in this blog who also writes this blog.  I am living my destiny.  I am moving forward wearing my brown coat, and you can get on board with my mission, or get out of my way.